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Potential fuck buddy? What to do?

Postby DMcG94 » Fri Mar 17, 2017 1:09 pm

So in case, many of you didn't know I'm a virgin. I was an incel at first and few girls wanted to fuck me although I did have some potential opportunities, I passed them up thinking that it wasn't really worth the effort. Now, there's actually a female friend I have that is willing to fuck me, but I'm not sure about it. She's not hot, however she definitely is above average and has nice tits and a nice ass. Me and her have made out before but we never actually had sex.

I'm SUPER cautious about STD's so I asked her if she has been tested. The reason I asked her is because she's fucked quite a bit of guys before. She said that she was tested back when she went to this rehabilitation place for recovery (long story don't ask) and that she didnt have any STD's. I asked her if they gave her a paper or something to go take with her as proof (because like I said, I wanted to be 100% certain). She said she did but it was later thrown out (which does make sense a little bit since its been close to 3 months since she went to the rehab center).

She's fine with me taking it slow and whatnot though. So what do I do? Is the opportunity worth it? I've had similar opportunities come my way but I didn't really take advantage of them.
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Re: Potential fuck buddy? What do?

Postby The Signal » Fri Mar 17, 2017 1:21 pm

"Run, Forrest, run!"

You'd lose your virginity, sure, but at what cost? What new, greater, irreversible problems might replace it? It's a legitimately open call on whether to go for her or not, but from silently observing the female students at my college, I encourage you to be very careful and sober in your risk analysis.

Were I a young man today dealing with young women today, I'd have more fleshlights than GIT and a hard drive capable of handling my demands. I say all this, though, as a middle-aged man who had plenty of sex back when he was a young man, so you should include the content of my biases into your assessment of my advice--it may be that my cautionary notes are a little too comfy and easy to give for someone in my vantage-point.
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Re: Potential fuck buddy? What do?

Postby ManWithAPlan » Fri Mar 17, 2017 1:23 pm

No idea who this chick is, but worst thing you could get is herpes. Use a condom and hope for the best? I don't know, it's up to you if you want to fuck her or not. But know that there's a possibility she could be trying to turn this into something more.

I really don't know what to tell you, but if you think sex is this amazing thing, then go and get it over with. It's better than masturbating, but certainly not manna from heaven.
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Re: Potential fuck buddy? What do?

Postby K-Dog » Fri Mar 17, 2017 2:00 pm

This should go without saying, but I'm a repetitive jerk, so I'll say it anyway.

There might be a reason she's interested in having sex with you: baby rabies. So if you go for it, take precautions so you don't get her pregnant. If she does get pregnant and says it's yours, be ready to demand a DNA test to check.

As more of K-Dog's jerk repetition, please realize that for most members here these comments raise huge red flags:
"[S]he's fucked quite a bit of guys before. ... [S]he went to this rehabilitation place for recovery [just a few months ago]."
Tread very carefully.
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Re: Potential fuck buddy? What do?

Postby DMcG94 » Fri Mar 17, 2017 2:13 pm

As more of K-Dog's jerk repetition, please realize that for most members here these comments raise huge red flags:
"[S]he's fucked quite a bit of guys before. ... [S]he went to this rehabilitation place for recovery [just a few months ago]."
Tread very carefully.



Yeah understandably. I'm not so sure about things right now either.. Plus I mean, if someone does have an STD, its not something they're gonna be bragging about. They're not gonna be like "Oh yeah, I have aids and herpes, tell everyone you know about it"

Pregnancy isn't an issue at all really because her doctor even told her she can't get pregnant. Obviously though, you can never be too careful.
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Re: Potential fuck buddy? What do?

Postby WheelBarrow » Fri Mar 17, 2017 2:36 pm

Was she the one who said the doc said she can't get pregnant? As I doubt that you can legally get independent confirmation of this due to HIPPA laws, only you can judge how trustworthy she may be.

While there are women who enjoy no strings attached sex, most women use sex as a means to an end. Often those ends are not in your better interest.
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Re: Potential fuck buddy? What do?

Postby Demosthenes » Fri Mar 17, 2017 2:38 pm

DMcG94 wrote:
As more of K-Dog's jerk repetition, please realize that for most members here these comments raise huge red flags:
"[S]he's fucked quite a bit of guys before. ... [S]he went to this rehabilitation place for recovery [just a few months ago]."
Tread very carefully.



Yeah understandably. I'm not so sure about things right now either.. Plus I mean, if someone does have an STD, its not something they're gonna be bragging about. They're not gonna be like "Oh yeah, I have aids and herpes, tell everyone you know about it"

Pregnancy isn't an issue at all really because her doctor even told her she can't get pregnant. Obviously though, you can never be too careful.


Red FUCKING ALERT!

I'm fairly certain, even though I am just guessing, that you do not even know her Doctor. I kinda doubt her Doctor said this to you.

Most likely, she told you that her Doctor said this because it is the fucking warm up pitch for the following...

HER: "We don't have to use a condom. I can't get pregnant. Besides, it feels better!"

If initial condom use is not challenged, then sometime during she might want to dispense with it since it 'doesn't feel the same'.

It sounds like the chick wants to get raw dogged.

I doubt any woman who claims her fertility is an issue when the subject of birth control comes up, especially is she is 'erring' on the side of risk instead of caution.

You don't know who else she is screwing or what her actual motives may be. Just because she claims pregnancy isn't an issue doesn't mean that pregnancy isn't an issue.
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Re: Potential fuck buddy? What do?

Postby Notorious GIT » Fri Mar 17, 2017 3:25 pm

DMcG94 wrote:She said that she was tested back when she went to this rehabilitation place for recovery (long story don't ask)


Oh HAYYYYYULLLL NAW! I like stories.

DMcG94 wrote:and that she didnt have any STD's. I asked her if they gave her a paper or something to go take with her as proof (because like I said, I wanted to be 100% certain). She said she did but it was later thrown out (which does make sense a little bit since its been close to 3 months since she went to the rehab center).


Oh, well, she says. And she DID have evidence, but you just can't see it because reasons. And three months from rehab... sure, what could go wrong?

Just, before you do anything, try this: Go to a mirror. Look at yourself. Pick up your hand, extend your forefinger to your reflection's face, and say the words, "IIIIIIIDDDDIIIIOOOOOT! You are thinking with your dick, which will rot off if you put it in the same zip code as this cum sock with a pulse."

Then punch yourself in the balls for even considering it, and when they feel better, rub one or ten out until your mind clears and you realize that Uncle GIT, no matter what funny poking in your thigh you felt when he took you on his knee to give you this advice, is right.

No one ever got the cock rot from porn and a fleshlight.
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Re: Potential fuck buddy? What do?

Postby Morgu » Fri Mar 17, 2017 3:40 pm

Notorious GIT wrote:No one ever got the cock rot from porn and a fleshlight.

The Slumbering God of MGTOW hath spoken (may his tentacles be forever well endowed). Practice the GIT Method, young one. For the GIT Method is the path that leads to the way.

Seriously, avoid this female. She has already lied to you, and she needs to go.

From the sound of it, you have already given her more information than is safe. Time to put yourself under radio silence.

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Re: Potential fuck buddy? What do?

Postby DMcG94 » Fri Mar 17, 2017 4:21 pm

Okay you guys are right. I was being a fucking idiot and thinking with the wrong head.

I was unsure at first but now I'm convinced that having sex with her is a terrible idea. 30 seconds of pleasure is not worth the risk of STD's or getting fucked in the ass by child support.

Thanks for beating some sense into me. I appreciate it.
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Re: Potential fuck buddy? What do?

Postby Notorious GIT » Fri Mar 17, 2017 5:59 pm

DMcG94 wrote:Okay you guys are right. I was being a fucking idiot and thinking with the wrong head.

I was unsure at first but now I'm convinced that having sex with her is a terrible idea. 30 seconds of pleasure is not worth the risk of STD's or getting fucked in the ass by child support.

Thanks for beating some sense into me. I appreciate it.


Don't beat yourself up too much. You were just considering being the fucking idiot that half of us are here for being ten times... The idiot... Of... Period.

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Re: Potential fuck buddy? What do?

Postby ManWithAPlan » Sat Mar 18, 2017 1:41 am

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Re: Potential fuck buddy? What do?

Postby Kcorain130 » Sat Mar 18, 2017 9:43 am

Go masturbate and then try thinking again...


Its not worth it, mate... there are more red flags about this woman in your OP than a communist rally.

I'm still a virgin at 33, my god am I happy about that!

The thirst for pussy is real, one of a group of my friends, (the only one actively looking to date) lost his virginity last year and then his girlfriend dumped him, he's now desperate to "get some" again.

Pussy addiction, its real... that's an addiction you don't want...
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Re: Potential fuck buddy? What do?

Postby The Shadow » Sat Mar 18, 2017 4:39 pm

DMcG94 wrote:Okay you guys are right. I was being a fucking idiot and thinking with the wrong head.

I was unsure at first but now I'm convinced that having sex with her is a terrible idea. 30 seconds of pleasure is not worth the risk of STD's or getting fucked in the ass by child support.

Thanks for beating some sense into me. I appreciate it.


While having sex with a gash doesn't make you a man, I think you should experience it once. This chick might not be the one
but you can wait for the next one, or for go P4P. Yeah, wearing a condom sucks but it's better then having 18 years of child support. Don't forget to flush the condom down the toilet if you do. These bat shit crazy chicks will use a turkey baster to impregnate themselves with a used condom.
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Re: Potential fuck buddy? What do?

Postby toolate » Sat Mar 18, 2017 8:58 pm

The Shadow wrote:
DMcG94 wrote:Okay you guys are right. I was being a fucking idiot and thinking with the wrong head.

I was unsure at first but now I'm convinced that having sex with her is a terrible idea. 30 seconds of pleasure is not worth the risk of STD's or getting fucked in the ass by child support.

Thanks for beating some sense into me. I appreciate it.


While having sex with a gash doesn't make you a man, I think you should experience it once. This chick might not be the one
but you can wait for the next one, or for go P4P. Yeah, wearing a condom sucks but it's better then having 18 years of child support. Don't forget to flush the condom down the toilet if you do. These bat shit crazy chicks will use a turkey baster to impregnate themselves with a used condom.


Ditto. Go hire a hooker and get it out of your system. Then you will know that without any chance of true romance or devotion from a woman these days, it's not that big a deal. Something you can easily replace with GIT-er Done brand diesel powered fleshlight.
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Re: Potential fuck buddy? What do?

Postby sonsofchemistry » Sat Mar 18, 2017 10:22 pm

I think you know the answer to this question. If not, try to reread your post as an unbiased observer. Rehab? Fucked lots of dudes? "Can't" get pregnant? Likely as not she is already preggers with some unemployed dipshit's child and wants to tag you for fakes paternity.



Come on bro, nope the fuck outta there already.
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Re: Potential fuck buddy? What do?

Postby DMcG94 » Sun Mar 19, 2017 2:11 am

I told her sex was a no-go for me.

I mainly just want to do it just so I can cross it off my bucket list if that makes sense. However, this seems a bit too risky so losing my virginity will have to wait.
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Re: Potential fuck buddy? What do?

Postby Live Free or Die » Sun Mar 19, 2017 5:26 am

PUA's turn into clowns for women in order to try to have sex with them (paraphrasing one of their own words).
MGTOW's do their own thing and turn down women for sex.



Really puts everything into perspective.
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Re: Potential fuck buddy? What do?

Postby WheelBarrow » Sun Mar 19, 2017 8:12 am

DMcG94 wrote:I mainly just want to do it just so I can cross it off my bucket list if that makes sense. However, this seems a bit too risky so losing my virginity will have to wait.


Then plan a trip to Nevada or wherever brothels are legal and the girls are checked and just do it.
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Re: Potential fuck buddy? What do?

Postby TDG » Sun Mar 19, 2017 11:32 am

Rubber up and fuck the shit out of her.

Repeat until bored.

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Re: Potential fuck buddy? What do?

Postby ernave » Sun Mar 19, 2017 8:20 pm

WheelBarrow wrote:
DMcG94 wrote:I mainly just want to do it just so I can cross it off my bucket list if that makes sense. However, this seems a bit too risky so losing my virginity will have to wait.


Then plan a trip to Nevada or wherever brothels are legal and the girls are checked and just do it.


This. You're always going to wonder about it until you actually do it. Then after you do it, you'll have a better perspective as to future women.

Consider this: the maximum trouble you could get from this woman, just in terms of the money it could cost you, is ten times more than the price of a first class ticket to Eastern Europe, where you could lose it to a solid ten drop-dead gorgeous professional who, if you tell her straight up that you're there to lose it, will take pride in giving you the time of your life.

You'll have a great memory, you can see some beautiful country, go to some museums and stuff, and come home with that bucket list checked and not a worry in the world.
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Re: Potential fuck buddy? What do?

Postby V-I-X » Sun Mar 19, 2017 11:58 pm

Get her tested, then bust a nut in her butt. Problem solved. For real, tho, the whole pregnancy thing is a bunch of shit. Have a friend that was busting nuts in a girl that claimed the same thing. They brake up and she ends up pregnant by some other idiot... He dodged a major bullet.
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Re: Potential fuck buddy? What do?

Postby deadb0y » Mon Mar 20, 2017 9:18 am

Keep your cherry mate.. You may not know what you are missing and if I had my time again... I'd fucking stick with not knowing what you are missing.

I am a self confessed pussy addict!!! That wouldn't be so if I'd have kept my cherry!
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Re: Potential fuck buddy? What do?

Postby Chef » Sun Apr 23, 2017 12:36 pm

There is absolutely nothing wrong with MGTOW having a regular, active and fulfilling sex life...with a real live partner. It's great that you are cautious and there is volumes of wisdom on this board to warn against and help identify potential pitfalls. Maybe this specific girl is a bad deal and no woman is 100% safe...but don't hem and haw over not being a "real" MGTOW because you like and/or want sex with women.

YOU CAN HAVE AND BE BOTH!!! DON'T DENY YOURSELF OVER IDEOLOGY!!
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Re: Potential fuck buddy? What do?

Postby Entreri » Sun Apr 23, 2017 9:09 pm

Chef wrote:There is absolutely nothing wrong with MGTOW having a regular, active and fulfilling sex life...with a real live partner. It's great that you are cautious and there is volumes of wisdom on this board to warn against and help identify potential pitfalls. Maybe this specific girl is a bad deal and no woman is 100% safe...but don't hem and haw over not being a "real" MGTOW because you like and/or want sex with women.

YOU CAN HAVE AND BE BOTH!!! DON'T DENY YOURSELF OVER IDEOLOGY!!


This. Exactly this. A million fucking times this.
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