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Best way of breaking things off?

Postby Falcon » Sun Jul 12, 2015 10:11 pm

I'll keep it short and simple, there is a girl who I was seeing because I felt like breaking dry spell. Now that it's done I don't really want to hang out with her, but she keeps texting and asking to meet up. In instances like these, is radio silence the best way to break things off without her getting too upset? And unfortunately she knows where I live(yeah, I know). I don't know if she would show up at my house or anything though. Any and all advice appreciated.
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Re: Best way of breaking things off?

Postby JohnnyComeLately » Sun Jul 12, 2015 10:32 pm

Cool, polite distance? That might make her more interested though. Tell her you're broke, that'd usually do the trick
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Re: Best way of breaking things off?

Postby Falcon » Sun Jul 12, 2015 10:35 pm

I literally laughed out loud, because I think you're right. Thanks for the advice
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Re: Best way of breaking things off?

Postby JohnnyComeLately » Sun Jul 12, 2015 10:45 pm

'I'd love to come out, but I just can't afford it'. Its an anti-aphrodisiac par excellance
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Re: Best way of breaking things off?

Postby hansmoleman » Mon Jul 13, 2015 1:59 am

Tell her you want to focus on yourself, and walk away. Do it in public.

Add yea...don't spend money on her like previously stated. The best way to make sure she doesn't even want to contact you again is to make her embarrassed to even be with you. Being a broke beta loser is a good way to go about it.
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Re: Best way of breaking things off?

Postby Notorious GIT » Mon Jul 13, 2015 3:14 am

*puts on serious hat* Buy her flowers, be way too nice like you're in love.Be kind and gentle. Pretty much do everything you'd find in a Men's Health "8 things you must do to get the girl" article. Pussy kryptonite.
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Re: Best way of breaking things off?

Postby MisterPho » Mon Jul 13, 2015 9:11 am

The onset of some obscure, long-term money troubles that you won't be able to get out of for years should do the trick.
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Re: Best way of breaking things off?

Postby MrPragmatic » Mon Jul 13, 2015 10:08 am

The radio silence method has worked for me in the past. Just keep in mind you may be unintentionally triggering her attraction to you through your aloofness and indifference. That said, even the most dim-witted chicks get the hint after a while.

However, if you have any reason to believe you may have a stalker on your hands, read and apply dating advice you'll find in the mainstream media. Especially advice coming from a woman. Yahoo, MSN, and Eharmony in particular have a wealth of information on sabotaging relationships. With your red pill knowledge, you'll see that tips which are the most "thoughtful" and "romantic" are seen as the most "creepy" in a woman's eyes, and thus will be most effective in repulsing this woman you're trying to sever ties.
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Re: Best way of breaking things off?

Postby Phathack » Mon Jul 13, 2015 10:12 am

I usually just say thanks had a good time and I get up and go home.
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Re: Best way of breaking things off?

Postby ZionDweller » Mon Jul 13, 2015 6:02 pm

Sad to say, you just need to be a really nice gentleman. Do that for long enough and she will probably leave the country.
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Re: Best way of breaking things off?

Postby Useless_1 » Tue Jul 14, 2015 12:51 am

I wish i could recommend a straight-up talk with her, respectful and honest.
However i would need to add: make sure a lawyer is present as a witness (dressed as a friend), make sure it is in a somewhat public space, make sure you have her out of the system an unable to backstab you (false rape, false preggo, false accusations of any kind, keys, belongings....)

But under such circumstances it is hard to be respectful and honest.


So i would say:
make sure she can not backstab you, and pretend to let yourself go
-lost a good job
-sell car
-due to gambling bet
-let beard grow
-drink
-listen to a type of music she hates
-go republican... or democrat... whatever...
-go christian... or buddist...


whatever makes her sick of you... do.
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Re: Best way of breaking things off?

Postby toadman » Tue Jul 14, 2015 1:40 am

That's pretty much what you have to do, making them hate you to cut the cord.
Make yourself so completely un-desireable and unworthy (temporarily) that she breaks it off, as if it was HER decision.
But you'd have to play along being sad-sack dumped chump. The Breakup Day she hangs up, deletes you and gives everything back to you is such a "horrible day". As you fake the beaten puppy slinking away tail-tucked with a huge-ass inner grin on your face until out of sight, free at last.

Classic Sun Tzu tactic, but takes some acting chops and serious Red Pill chutzpah and patience to make it stick. It helps if she has already grasped onto the next vine that you do not speak of.
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Re: Best way of breaking things off?

Postby Calloway » Tue Jul 14, 2015 8:29 am

Have a friend of yours strike up a conversion with her somewhere. Especially if he dresses differently from you, looks different, acts different. He doesn't have to be "better", just different.

Within a week she'll be telling you that you both should "see other people".
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Re: Best way of breaking things off?

Postby monty burns » Wed Jul 15, 2015 2:08 am

1) wear a sweater, like the guy in that mini chat pic

2) try this oldie but goodie-rent the accused and when jodie foster gets raped cheer wildly

3) do her doggie style. during act, announce "this is how i would fuck your sister". Accomplishes 2 things. Tests how long
you can ride her and she should be outta there after
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Re: Best way of breaking things off?

Postby JohnnyComeLately » Wed Jul 15, 2015 3:22 am

Calloway wrote:Have a friend of yours strike up a conversion with her somewhere. Especially if he dresses differently from you, looks different, acts different. He doesn't have to be "better", just different.

Within a week she'll be telling you that you both should "see other people".


Better yet, make it not a friend (would you do that to a friend?) but some douchebag you don't like much, an asshole workmate perhaps.
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Re: Best way of breaking things off?

Postby jeffer » Sun Aug 02, 2015 9:18 pm

monty burns wrote: 3) do her doggie style. during act, announce "this is how i would fuck your sister". Accomplishes 2 things. Tests how long
you can ride her and she should be outta there after

I LOLed so hard :lol:
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Re: Best way of breaking things off?

Postby monty burns » Mon Aug 03, 2015 2:17 am

jeffer wrote:
monty burns wrote: 3) do her doggie style. during act, announce "this is how i would fuck your sister". Accomplishes 2 things. Tests how long
you can ride her and she should be outta there after

I LOLed so hard :lol:



I've heard of it called cowboy style. Should transform into a bucking bronco situation. And you have to time it to verify how long you stayed "on". Then compare with others.
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Re: Best way of breaking things off?

Postby Silvestroyer » Mon Aug 03, 2015 2:48 pm

Go cold turkey.

Never explain to her why you are dumping her.
She does not deserve the closure. Get your own closure some other way.
She does not deserve the opportunity to lie to you even more (and if she already has, she will do it again).
She does not deserve the opportunity to learn how to hide her lies better.
She does not deserve the comfort of using anything you say to absolve her of culpability for her actions by painting herself as the victim.

The only thing she deserves is being discarded in silence.
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Re: Best way of breaking things off?

Postby PSIII » Wed Aug 12, 2015 2:49 pm

Great thread.

Wish I would have found this sooner.

Playing the beta-bitch boy will send her away. Really start to complain about money and car problems (throw in a "I don't even know where I'm going to be sleeping next month") for the clincher.

Say it a pathetic way. Say it in a "unemployed, bad boy asshole" way, and you won't be able to get rid of her. I know plenty of hot women who were supporting deadbeat assholes, but those guys were of the bad boy (drug head, ex-con) variety.
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Re: Best way of breaking things off?

Postby Entreri » Wed Aug 12, 2015 11:43 pm

Getting a case of Teh Feelz worked pretty well for me.....and I DIDN'T want to get rid of that one....:(
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Re: Best way of breaking things off?

Postby ZionDweller » Thu Aug 27, 2015 10:22 pm

Send her this message as a text and she will never even blink in your general direction again, ever.

Hi, I was thinking about you all day, I miss your smell, the way your hair moves in the breeze, you are my everything, I would give up my life for you, you are so much better than me and I've been wondering what I did to deserve someone like you in my life, I just don't feel I deserve you. I want to watch you while you sleep (again). Please don't leave me, promise me you will never leave me. I need to see you, we need to spend more time together. Do you love me like I love you? you never tell me how you feel anymore. How do you feel about me? We need to spend more time together!
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Re: Best way of breaking things off?

Postby LaffingNow » Sat Sep 26, 2015 3:04 am

Falcon wrote:Now that it's done I don't really want to hang out with her, but she keeps texting and asking to meet up.

Text back "you’re an investment with no return" or ask for a threesome with her hot friend or sister.
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Re: Best way of breaking things off?

Postby Chef » Tue Jan 12, 2016 12:19 pm

When I meet women I'd like to hang out with, I explain to them how I do not collect female friends and why that is a benefit to them personally. I ask how comfortable they would be, should we really hit it off, with me spending time I'm not with her with several female "friends" on a regular basis...you know, because they are my friends. Of course, no woman is going to like me hanging out with other girls when we are not together so I sell it as piece of mind to her and how that demonstrates my respect for her...no "friends" to worry about...no unnecessary trust issues created. So when it comes time to end things, there is no expectation that we remain friends.

Problem solved before it's ever a problem ;)
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Re: Best way of breaking things off?

Postby VictimBlamer » Fri Jan 29, 2016 6:25 am

Ever break up with her?
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Re: Best way of breaking things off?

Postby Darth Sin » Fri Jan 29, 2016 10:28 am

Break off all contact, walk away and treat her with indifference.
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