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SEI woman blaming everyone but herself

Postby JohnnyComeLately » Wed May 17, 2017 8:49 pm

An article : http://www.bolde.com/incredible-women-often-have-worst-dating-lives-heres-why/

There are two types of women: those who have amazing luck in love and those who end up in one romantic disaster after another. (Jump to extremes often?) It’s not that there’s anything wrong with the latter group, either — they’re smart, independent, and actually really sexy. (Sexy, huh? Forgive me if I won't take your word for that, but do continue) Turns out, it might be those amazing qualities that are keeping them from finding love. What gives?

1. They’re intimidating. Some guys don’t know how to handle intimidating women, let alone date them. There’s something about them that lead these guys to believe that they’re either bitchy or more intense than they really are (Yes. I imagine there might be). If you ask me, guys like that are just afraid and would rather have a girl they feel that they have more power over. No thanks.

2. They’re independent AF and won’t sacrifice that for anyone. Naturally, some guys are more dominant and protective beings, which tends to play into their ego tremendously. If an insecure guy feels like you don’t need him, then his self-esteem tends to go down. Why this would have anything to do with HIS self-esteem is beyond me, but that’s what happens. Many guys just like the feeling of being needed and depended upon. Independent women are the total opposite, hence the disconnect (Question: If you're so 'independent' then why write a 10 point article whining about why men don't want to date you?)

3. They have built-in a**hole repellent. By default, these girls can detect remotely any traces of toxic, BS behavior and in return end up scaring guys off before they get a chance. Most would consider this a good thing, but sometimes it sends the wrong message to guys who maybe just deserve a second chance and didn’t really mean to slap your ass when you were drunk. It’s a no-tolerance policy with girls like these, and it’s for their own protection. (If everyone you meet is an asshole, then the problem is....?)

4. They call guys out on their bullsh*t. You can’t really get anything past these girls because they’re always on their game. They can see through any lies and nonsense guys have rolled up their sleeves. It’s a gift, but it often scares off guys in the process, because what guy wants a girl to know absolutely everything they’re up to? (Wonder how they react when a guy calls them out on their bullshit. Yeah, that's what I thought)

5. They’re a little weird. Amazing women always come with a weird side — that’s pretty much a given. The coolest and most inspiring women have this uniqueness about them that’s sometimes hard to understand, but that’s what makes them so amazing! Some guys have a hard time with girls who march to the beat of their own drum and are a little unpredictable. They don’t know how to act around these girls or how to understand them, but that’s okay, because these women love their own weirdness. They don’t need a guy to approve of them, that’s for sure. (Sigh. Weirdness has nothing to do with being a SEI cliché. And a normie is going to struggle to socialise with a weirdo, and vice versa, its not a gender thing in any case. I find it hard to relate to men who try to talk to me about football. They look at you like you're an alien if you say you don't follow sport.)

6. They’re super picky because they know their worth. Women who are super picky aren’t judgmental; they just know what they want, and they’re not about to settle for anything or anyone that’s not as amazing as they are (As Data once stated, a belief in ones own perfection is a sign of a delusional mind). Guys that can keep up, be real, be honest, and love hard are the only kind they’ll accept. If these guys aren’t up to scratch, they don’t stand a chance. No questions asked.

7. They’re intense. Intensity is something that can be taken negatively, and sometimes these women don’t have very much control over it. They’re intense storytellers, intense lovers, and intense in the way they communicate. They don’t have a problem sharing who they are, and it can be overwhelming to guys who are a little more on the conservative side. (Or guys who have the slightest ounce of sense. 'Intensity', sure that's a quality I've always associated with feminine attractiveness. And serial killers.)

8. They have real goals. Women who are killing it in life usually have their focus on more important things than finding love, anyway. Their motivation when they wake up in the morning isn’t to match with a hottie on Tinder or land a date where they get a free meal and a few meaningless compliments. A truly motivated woman will focus on improving her life with things that actually make a difference, like learning, traveling, and embracing a strong career. If guys aren’t on this level, they can move on (A paragraph that can be summarised in one word: Hypergamy).

9. They’re way more mature than most. Women who have a strong head, a good attitude, and a poised way of carrying themselves have this admirable maturity about them that’s rare. They don’t gossip, dwell on negativity, or care about what others think of them. They don’t get their worth from guys telling them they’re hot, nor do they need to post fifteen selfies a week to feel good about themselves. They like who they are, and any guy who shows the slightest bit of immaturity will never stand a chance. (Wow, they sound like whole bags of fun. Admittedly, not taking selfies constantly, not gossiping etc. are good traits, but forgive me for being sceptical of whether the writer of this article is being honest about herself here.)

10. They love the hardest. These women may be intimidating, independent, bold, and strong, but they will always love hard. They’ll take pride in their relationship and put everything they have into it, and sometimes it can be overwhelming. Only strong men can handle this kind of love. (Strong men, and in extreme cases, the FBI)

11. They’re actually the ones that guys have a hard time finding. In reality, guys are the ones who have a hard time finding the amazing girls, because they’re like diamonds in the rough. You can only find them when you look hard and have the same high standards and expectations they do. Once a guy embraces an amazing woman, he’ll never be able to go to another. (Yeah. Men everywhere are searching for strong empowered combative women who don't need them and will criticise every single thing they do. Keep telling yourself that, cupcake.)



I only bothered to post this in order to highlight the below comment from the article, which is a fine example of Olympic level sarcasm :

So fierce, so brave.
These strong, independent Women are like lone she-wolves, hungering, searching.
Empowered. Beautiful.
:lol: :lol:
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Re: SEI woman blaming everyone but herself

Postby deadb0y » Thu May 18, 2017 6:18 am

Intimidating... HA!

I've have never, in all my years EVER met an intimidating woman EVER!!!

They all earn less, are less capable, have less sensibilities and are just basically all round worse, than me!!
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Re: SEI woman blaming everyone but herself

Postby Demosthenes » Thu May 18, 2017 7:50 am

deadb0y wrote:Intimidating... HA!

I've have never, in all my years EVER met an intimidating woman EVER!!!

They all earn less, are less capable, have less sensibilities and are just basically all round worse, than me!!


I was starting out in a new job. I was maybe 20 or 21 and had spent the time and effort to pick nd learn the various procedures for all testing in our department. I could support and fill in for anyone on their assigned test groups.

The mid to late thirties department manager, one step below the unattainable for her department head position, started regularly giving me shit for no reason. In an awkward exchange one evening, my immediate supervisor witnesses her giving me shit and then walking out after I calmly explain what I was doing and why I was doing it, and for whom I was performing the 'extra work'.

Apparently, by being reasonable, logical and putting in the extra time to ensure that one of our testing cycles didn't get delayed die to an absence that day I was guilty of the future feminist labeled crime of 'mansplaining'.

As I sat there, somewhat stunned at the scattered verbal assault for no reason, my supervisor steps over, being the pretend nice guy that he was and offers the following.

Me: (I turn and look at him, and I am in full sarcasm and disdain mode now)
"I'm sorry for staying late and making sure these results go out. I promise not to do it any more. I'm obviously a bad person and employee for staying late and making sure things don't get backed up on our testing and getting results out.

Him: It not any of that. You do a great job. She appreciates what you do.

Me: Yeah, that just sounded like appreciation.

Him: The problem is (shakes his head) you intimidate her.

Me: (laughing at the idiocy of it all)

Him: (cracks up a little bit at the understood absurdity)

We then hear footsteps that shouldn't be there walking away from the door. The sound is definitive the clop clop of her and her signature pumps walking swiftly away. And in the following days, my immediate supervisor gets similar treatment and several lectures, open in front of everyone, and closed door about things he should and should not say.

He later turned into a total ass while simultaneously trying to cozy back up to me as if we were the bestest buddies EVAR after I got a new job. See, I'd committed the sin of interviewing for another job that paid double what they were paying me and I took that interview without their position, which made me a bad person.

They initially hired two people to do my job after I was gone. By the time the dust settled, they'd hired a third.

All that bullshit because she felt intimidated. Did she thank me, or give me a merit raise? No, she found reasons to write me up to delay my leaving the department. She was shitty, on purpose. She found a reason to fire me because I took a day off that had been approved several weeks prior, only to be told by her and the department head the night before that I was not allowed to take that day and that if I did not report for work the following day, there would be consequences.

She was a department manager. She was easily fifteen or so years older. And she was initimidated by a twenty year old and his capacity to learn and absorb information to make himself more valuable to the department, because he was stupid enough to think that if he did a good job, he'd be rewarded for it.

Go figure...
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Re: SEI woman blaming everyone but herself

Postby TDG » Thu May 18, 2017 8:53 am

Typical female projection.

She lists the attributes that women want in men then incorrectly assumes that's what men want in women.

Being young, sweet, and nice beats any of those 'qualities' on that list for what a man finds attractive.
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Re: SEI woman blaming everyone but herself

Postby Merlin » Thu May 18, 2017 11:32 am

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When someone tries to sell you something saying "I'm waiting for the right buyer" either they are waiting for a sucker or they are trying to sell something that isn't strong.
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One of the perks of strenght is versatility, if you don't have that then you aren't strong.


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Re: SEI woman blaming everyone but herself

Postby Demosthenes » Thu May 18, 2017 11:58 am

TDG wrote:Typical female projection.

She lists the attributes that women want in men then incorrectly assumes that's what men want in women.

Being young, sweet, and nice beats any of those 'qualities' on that list for what a man finds attractive.


And too many damn women push to hard trying to force their sons to be 'sweet and nice'.

We can't forget about that way too many young men internalizing what they want from women and trying to act sweet and nice for these unappreciative females. Sweet and nice does not make the grade, but women want most men being sweet and nice so they can benefit from their niceness even as they openly disdain them and want and demand for men to appreciate the open disdain as well.

It's all an extension of a system trying to force boys not to be boys. The more they disallow, and the more they take, the more these boys and young men shrug and drop the fuck out of bothering with any 'societal' expectations.

The cost/benefit and responsibility/reward factors are fucked and favor women. Men know it, women know it, but women still get all upset about what men should and are supposed to be doing for women. At the same time, women are telling men to expect even less and for men to 'enjoy the abuse' women give them.

And no one can figure out why boys and men are saying "Fuck you I won't do what you tell me!" :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Re: SEI woman blaming everyone but herself

Postby The Signal » Thu May 18, 2017 12:04 pm

Demosthenes wrote:
TDG wrote:The cost/benefit and responsibility/reward factors are fucked and favor women. Men know it, women know it, but women still get all upset about what men should and are supposed to be doing for women. At the same time, women are telling men to expect even less and for men to 'enjoy the abuse' women give them.

And no one can figure out why boys and men are saying "Fuck you I won't do what you tell me!" :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

And if we're smart, we will never, ever do anything to clue them in. The blinder they stay, the better.
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Re: SEI woman blaming everyone but herself

Postby hansmoleman » Thu May 18, 2017 5:23 pm

. Women who are killing it in life


LMAO.

Stupid cunt thinks that the preferrential treatment she receives in her early 20s will last after she slams into the wall...and there are younger, tighter interns in the office.
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Re: SEI woman blaming everyone but herself

Postby ernave » Thu May 18, 2017 7:48 pm

TDG wrote:Typical female projection.

She lists the attributes that women want in men then incorrectly assumes that's what men want in women.

Being young, sweet, and nice beats any of those 'qualities' on that list for what a man finds attractive.


Quite. Fucking. True.

I think men do this too, by the way. I think this is the cause of guys being too nice
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Re: SEI woman blaming everyone but herself

Postby ZionDweller » Tue May 30, 2017 10:22 pm

She sounds so intimidating, I guess I better stay away. It's my loss...
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Re: SEI woman blaming everyone but herself

Postby The Signal » Tue May 30, 2017 11:58 pm

^^^ That's the spirit!
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Re: SEI woman blaming everyone but herself

Postby Demosthenes » Wed May 31, 2017 12:39 am

The mainstream media keeps pushing the tired horrible message of woman being so amazing, and strong, blah fucking blah. If women were actually so amazing, and strong, and incredible, and 'killing it' in life, they wouldn't feel the need to repeat it incessantly like a broken record for a pathetic advertisement campaign. They just wouldn't have to.
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Re: SEI woman blaming everyone but herself

Postby Slade » Sun Jun 18, 2017 7:17 pm

deadb0y wrote:Intimidating... HA!

I've have never, in all my years EVER met an intimidating woman EVER!!!


They think being a pain in the ass and a world class bitch is "intimidating".
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Re: SEI woman blaming everyone but herself

Postby chiefbrownmonk » Sun Jun 18, 2017 9:33 pm

Demosthenes wrote:The mainstream media keeps pushing the tired horrible message of woman being so amazing, and strong, blah fucking blah. If women were actually so amazing, and strong, and incredible, and 'killing it' in life, they wouldn't feel the need to repeat it incessantly like a broken record for a pathetic advertisement campaign. They just wouldn't have to.


The only "it" they're killing is themselves. Works for me. Go for it ladies. Cats in aisle 1, SSRIs in aisle 2 and wine in aisle 3, 4, 5 and cooler 1.
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