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Postby WakingUp » Sat Mar 22, 2014 3:13 pm

"Dead Bedrooms"

Some serious fucking red pills in here folks!

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Re: /r/DeadBedrooms

Postby TDG » Sat Mar 22, 2014 3:43 pm

Damn, they are some serious red pills!

Marriage... the ultimate friend zone...
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Re: /r/DeadBedrooms

Postby Dr Van Nostrand » Sat Mar 22, 2014 4:14 pm

Of course you don't get laid by your wife, they already got you to put a ring on it. So, if you want to cheat or a divorce you will have to pay her monthly & give up most of your shit. Marriage is a lose/lose situation for men so don't do it!
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Re: /r/DeadBedrooms

Postby Bill McNeal » Sat Mar 22, 2014 6:42 pm

Dr Van Nostrand wrote:Of course you don't get laid by your wife, they already got you to put a ring on it. So, if you want to cheat or a divorce you will have to pay her monthly & give up most of your shit. Marriage is a lose/lose situation for men so don't do it!


Ah, a wedding ring. The chastity belt you wear on your finger.
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Re: /r/DeadBedrooms

Postby Harima » Sun Mar 23, 2014 2:43 pm

TDG wrote:Damn, they are some serious red pills!

Marriage... the ultimate friend zone...


If men only knew they can get a friend zone experience even without getting marriage. I do like the parts about men simply picking porn over their clueless wives :lol:
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Re: /r/DeadBedrooms

Postby MK_9 » Sun Mar 23, 2014 2:53 pm

I don't know about many of you...If I were dating someone and Sex started being held hostage, that would be an instant red flag to break off that relationship. The sad fact that these people are being held at the end of a gun by .gov is completely sad.
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Re: /r/DeadBedrooms

Postby ubermensch » Mon Mar 24, 2014 1:17 am

Oh. That looks like fun.

Where the FUCK do I sign up?!?!?!
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Re: /r/DeadBedrooms

Postby Calloway » Mon Mar 24, 2014 12:26 pm

MK_9 wrote:I don't know about many of you...If I were dating someone and Sex started being held hostage, that would be an instant red flag to break off that relationship.


Amen to that!

Just a couple of years ago, I had a long-time girlfriend who decided that we needed to "work on our foundation of friendship", so she unilaterally decided to "end all physical contact". Not just stop sex, but stop kissing, stop holding hands, everything! She even slid away from me on the couch on a couple of occassions because she happened to sit down next to me where our legs were touching.

I had already taken the red pill by this time, so I was torn. Is this a challenge of the level of my Game to "win" her back, or should I end it here? I decided to take the challenge, as I started to distance myself from her.

I basically drove her nuts, gaming her for a couple of months. I have to admit that it was fun in a sadistic kind of way, but in reality I knew if she didn't seriously change and come clean as to what was really going on, it was over. When I finally kissed her a little over a month later, she sighed heavily afterward and said "Finally..."

I did "win" her back and we started our full-on physical relationship again. We were back at it for about a month and then she started in with the whole cycle all over again, telling me that our "friendship was suffering". I don't see how your friendship or your relationship can suffer from too much intimacy.

Unless this relationship is not the one you're wanting to strengthen.

I spoke to a female friend of mine about this shortly afterward and she told me, "Women don't end a physical relationship with one guy until they have another guy lined up, or are actively having sex already with another guy." It's the 'monkey-vining' that we talk about. Same thing.

Once I internally accepted that she was seeing someone else, I started putting all the clues together. And it became obvious when things happened. Things she had said that confused me for weeks, suddenly became clear. Things she had done that confused me at the time, suddenly had a meaning.

Then, the final nail in the coffin.

She called me just before Valentine's Day, just to talk. I mentioned her new boyfriend. She said, "Well, he's hardly a 'new' boyfriend. We've been dating for over a year now!" My mind instantly went back to our Valentine's Day date the previous year when we ended it. She just told me that he was in the picture then.

And they say men don't listen! :lol:

When a women wants you, nothing will stand in her way. When she no longer wants you, it's time to move on. Because she may not want you, but she'll have no problem using you.

Your time, your money, your resources. You have value. She knows it. She just doesn't want YOU to know it.
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Re: /r/DeadBedrooms

Postby TDG » Mon Mar 24, 2014 1:26 pm

Calloway wrote:
MK_9 wrote:I don't know about many of you...If I were dating someone and Sex started being held hostage, that would be an instant red flag to break off that relationship.


Amen to that!

Just a couple of years ago, I had a long-time girlfriend who decided that we needed to "work on our foundation of friendship", so she unilaterally decided to "end all physical contact". Not just stop sex, but stop kissing, stop holding hands, everything! She even slid away from me on the couch on a couple of occassions because she happened to sit down next to me where our legs were touching.


My last girl got to the point in the relationship where she felt I was just using her in bed. Funnily enough, she didn't mention this the first 18 months we were together...

Taking the red pill made me see the red flags and understand that her sexuality strategy of 'alpha fucks, beta bucks' had gone from the former to the latter.

I knew it was doomed from there on in...
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Re: /r/DeadBedrooms

Postby demonsgate » Mon Mar 24, 2014 3:10 pm

Wedding Ring- A tool used to enslave men to ensure a mundane sexless lifestyle full of trivial errands and infinite misery.
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Re: /r/DeadBedrooms

Postby toadman » Tue Mar 25, 2014 8:54 pm

When a women wants you, nothing will stand in her way. When she no longer wants you, it's time to move on. Because she may not want you, but she'll have no problem using you. Your time, your money, your resources. You have value. She knows it. She just doesn't want YOU to know it.


Oh do I know of the inevitable "other side of the couch or bed" move, Cal.
Glad you are posting again. :)
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Re: /r/DeadBedrooms

Postby ubermensch » Tue Mar 25, 2014 11:03 pm

Calloway wrote:
MK_9 wrote:I don't know about many of you...If I were dating someone and Sex started being held hostage, that would be an instant red flag to break off that relationship.


Amen to that!

Just a couple of years ago, I had a long-time girlfriend who decided that we needed to "work on our foundation of friendship", so she unilaterally decided to "end all physical contact". Not just stop sex, but stop kissing, stop holding hands, everything! She even slid away from me on the couch on a couple of occassions because she happened to sit down next to me where our legs were touching.

I had already taken the red pill by this time, so I was torn. Is this a challenge of the level of my Game to "win" her back, or should I end it here? I decided to take the challenge, as I started to distance myself from her.

I basically drove her nuts, gaming her for a couple of months. I have to admit that it was fun in a sadistic kind of way, but in reality I knew if she didn't seriously change and come clean as to what was really going on, it was over. When I finally kissed her a little over a month later, she sighed heavily afterward and said "Finally..."

I did "win" her back and we started our full-on physical relationship again. We were back at it for about a month and then she started in with the whole cycle all over again, telling me that our "friendship was suffering". I don't see how your friendship or your relationship can suffer from too much intimacy.

Unless this relationship is not the one you're wanting to strengthen.

I spoke to a female friend of mine about this shortly afterward and she told me, "Women don't end a physical relationship with one guy until they have another guy lined up, or are actively having sex already with another guy." It's the 'monkey-vining' that we talk about. Same thing.

Once I internally accepted that she was seeing someone else, I started putting all the clues together. And it became obvious when things happened. Things she had said that confused me for weeks, suddenly became clear. Things she had done that confused me at the time, suddenly had a meaning.

Then, the final nail in the coffin.

She called me just before Valentine's Day, just to talk. I mentioned her new boyfriend. She said, "Well, he's hardly a 'new' boyfriend. We've been dating for over a year now!" My mind instantly went back to our Valentine's Day date the previous year when we ended it. She just told me that he was in the picture then.

And they say men don't listen! :lol:

When a women wants you, nothing will stand in her way. When she no longer wants you, it's time to move on. Because she may not want you, but she'll have no problem using you.

Your time, your money, your resources. You have value. She knows it. She just doesn't want YOU to know it.


That's just plain fucked. No wonder women were controlled in times of old - they're deceitful and duplicitous by nature!

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Re: /r/DeadBedrooms

Postby Calloway » Wed Apr 02, 2014 2:43 pm

toadman wrote:Oh do I know of the inevitable "other side of the couch or bed" move, Cal.
Glad you are posting again. :)


Hey Toad. I wish I could be around here more. Things at work have been crazy since the beginning of the year. I'm on a *HUGE* project that is likely to run until the beginning of summer with no let-up in sight. I'll definitely be more active once this project is completed. See you guys soon.
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Re: /r/DeadBedrooms

Postby Vic Ferrari » Mon Apr 07, 2014 9:48 pm

Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaa....

If your wife ballooned to 250 pounds, you'd thank God she wasn't interested.

In case that's too subtle, picture 250 pounds of raw sausage mixed with cream cheese and stuff it into a 5 pound bag.

I have the barf bags over here, take one with a complimentary moist towelette.
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Re: /r/DeadBedrooms

Postby Neo » Tue Apr 08, 2014 6:57 am

[/quote]

My last girl got to the point in the relationship where she felt I was just using her in bed. Funnily enough, she didn't mention this the first 18 months we were together...

Taking the red pill made me see the red flags and understand that her sexuality strategy of 'alpha fucks, beta bucks' had gone from the former to the latter.

I knew it was doomed from there on in...[/quote]

Isn't it great when you can finally see whats really going on and act accordingly
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Re: /r/DeadBedrooms

Postby No4Dad » Wed Apr 09, 2014 6:30 am

I think this is an accurate statement:

Anytime she starts trying to 'build the relationship', you're on your way out.

It may be in ways mentioned above, going to a counselor, going on some kind of marriage-building retreat, something as simple as building-your-relationship books.. Any of those mean: You're on your way out.

That's the obvious sign. If you're looking for something more obvious like another man's semen in her hair when she arrives home from 'work' then you're not going to see what's happening right in front of your eyes.

The problem with the "relationship building" crap, in whatever form it's presented, is that you see it as a sign of hope and think, "Ok, maybe everything isn't going 100% perfect but I really like her and we can work through this." No, you can't. You're on your way out. It may be 6 months. It may be 2 years. You're on your way out. She's already done with you and moving on, this is just the game they play.
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Re: /r/DeadBedrooms

Postby Silvestroyer » Mon Jul 17, 2017 3:49 am

Nothing like that sub if you want to check what you are missing out:

https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/c ... _the_mood/

Damn... at 25 years of age and the sex is already gone. Things get burned out fast nowadays. I'm glad I'm out of that
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Re: /r/DeadBedrooms

Postby deadb0y » Mon Jul 17, 2017 4:50 am

Something I've made very VERY CRYSTAL clear to EVERY woman I've ever got romantically involved is:

If you go frigid on me I'm gone!

That needs to be adhered to with extreme prejudice! When I hear guys that have been months, especially years, without sex...? They're fucking idiots.. GTFO!!!
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Re: /r/DeadBedrooms

Postby Cherubino » Mon Jul 17, 2017 7:01 am

MK_9 wrote:I don't know about many of you...If I were dating someone and Sex started being held hostage, that would be an instant red flag to break off that relationship.

And the thing with this comment is, up until this point it is completely "blue pill"!

You don't even have to be "red pilled" to see how completely smashed all this is.


Btw, here is the "red pilled" part:
MK_9 wrote:The sad fact that these people are being held at the end of a gun by .gov is completely sad.
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Re: /r/DeadBedrooms

Postby ernave » Mon Jul 17, 2017 7:06 am

deadb0y wrote: When I hear guys that have been months, especially years, without sex...? They're fucking idiots.. GTFO!!!


These days, you pay the same price in court no matter the reason. It's amazing to think that just one generation ago, you could walk into court and explain that there was no more sex and they'd call that abandonment and nullify the marriage with no cost to you.
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Re: /r/DeadBedrooms

Postby Valentin d'Arimathie » Mon Jul 17, 2017 7:10 am

One of the most sickening stories I recently read there :

Worst Father's Day Ever
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Re: /r/DeadBedrooms

Postby No4Dad » Mon Jul 17, 2017 8:14 am

Saw this at the top:
Report, report, report, because MGTOW cross-posting has brought *actual Nazis* to our sub


"Actual Nazis". We were just racists before. Now we're "Actual Nazis". If only we would agree 100% with them...
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Re: /r/DeadBedrooms

Postby Sam I Am » Mon Jul 17, 2017 12:12 pm

Calloway wrote:
When a women wants you, nothing will stand in her way. When she no longer wants you, it's time to move on. Because she may not want you, but she'll have no problem using you.

Your time, your money, your resources. You have value. She knows it. She just doesn't want YOU to know it.


Sometimes it's good when aging threads get revived.

The above quote from Calloway bears repeating.

"She may not want you, but she'll have no problem using you."

The challenge for you lurking guys out there is being able to recognize when she no longer wants you and is just using you. Some are *really* good at masking that.

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Re: /r/DeadBedrooms

Postby deadb0y » Mon Jul 17, 2017 12:16 pm

No4Dad wrote:Saw this at the top:
Report, report, report, because MGTOW cross-posting has brought *actual Nazis* to our sub


"Actual Nazis". We were just racists before. Now we're "Actual Nazis". If only we would agree 100% with them...



Yeah, I've had a bit of that on /r/askMRP and /r/marriedredpill .. because I also post on /r/MGTOW I hate women apparently, even though I'm married to one.. and I'm a facist/cave dweller/neck beard.. Actual Nazi's pretty good though :)

Whatever!

reddit people are fucking strange, always have been!
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Re: /r/DeadBedrooms

Postby WheelBarrow » Mon Jul 17, 2017 5:51 pm

Valentin d'Arimathie wrote:One of the most sickening stories I recently read there :

Worst Father's Day Ever


Damn.

That isn't simply a dead bedroom. That's a drop kick into the nuts. Sadly, I knew exactly what he would be writing about by the end of his second paragraph. He did the right thing by changing bank accounts and passwords, etc. Just so long as he lawyers up with all of this as documented proof, he may, may retain custody of his sons.
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