FWIW, I clicked play before I read, and I was surprised to hear a male voice. That's not a bad on him... women just look that much like men now. That that could have been a woman should have never occurred to me, and that's on women.
TDG wrote:INCELs are welcome here aslong as they don't drone about not getting laid.
Banging women is a numbers game. Even the 'alphas' get shot down a lot.
QFT. All types welcome. But there's a catch: that term is BS, and anyone who attempts to garner sympathy from it can STFU.
I could fall into that category of incel. I'm not. I voluntarily don't fuck what's available because it's sub the fuck par by a damn sight. I'm also not willing to play the numbers game... Ugh, broken down quickly, if 1/100 women are worth my time, and I need to hit on 10 to get to bed one, that means I need to sift through a thousand. Ah, no. No thank you.
But that's not the case, because 1/100 is just if we're talking looks. Want to toss in her tolerability from meeting to as long as it takes to get laid? Fuck. Let's put it this way, I've been with the low 3 figures of women, more if you count cash paid encounters, and in 14 years of being sexually active, not one was enough to keep me.
It's only involuntary in that I sure as shit would have sex if there was anything worthy of it. We don't have shaming terms like "instarve" for people for whom the best option for food is a mound of shit.
Bottom line, I don't believe in male incels. I believe men voluntarily opt out gven a shitty set of options, but mistake their position and have a defeatist attitude. This is why I say "women who weigh what the fuck they ought to weigh," and other such oft repeated phrases. The onus is on them. These men just have this internalized self blame for the massive failing on the part of women as a whole thanks to society's brainwashing: it's gotta be me, why can't I get a woman?
The definition of woman includes things that exclude better than 99% of them from consideration. Again, another differentiation I make, between "women and vagina owners." Being the latter does NOT qualify you to the honor of the title of the former.
I think it is impossible for a man to be an incel. Only a woman can be an incel. A man can only accept the social programming, which really wants him to think of himself as more womanly. Therefore he comes to think of himself in vaginal terms, like incel. Society does demand equality in one respect, and that is that men be brought down to women's level.
Don't get me wrong, I still think a man who accepts the title of incel needs a hard punch to the fucking head to sort out the stupid, but for an entirely different reason than people would expect. the solution is not self pity that you are not good enough, the solution is pitying women for not being good enough. And I only say pity them because, well, try it sometime. Openly show a fat, middle aged woman pity for her station in life. It's a transcendentally blissful experience to see the look of abject defeat on her weathered face.