But if the porn is preferred over real sex (when there is a willing and sexual female/partner present) then really, that person has a very different sexual preference than what is the norm in a relationship.”
Masturbation is real sex. Just ask Dr. Ruth. A man enjoys some porn and it's bad bad bad. but a woman enjoys porn and it's all good. Note, they say men 'use' porn.
If a man chooses to avoid the risks of relationships, that's his choice. It does not mean he can't have a girlfriend, or enjoy sex on his terms. Sex on his terms is what this claptrap is all about.
They want women setting the terms and controlling it all, even his access to sexual release. This is all about shaming men for their sexuality. A similar article telling women the same thing would be seen as oppressive and sexist.
[I know many men who consume porn and even prostitutes. All of them want a girlfriend.
Anecdotal claim is anecdotal. And I know women who use porn. Some wanted boyfriends, some did not. some had boyfriends or husbands and did not want them. Some even had a boyfriend and a husband and did not want them and used porn. This anecdotal - everything matches what he knows bullshit is not proof of anything other than the author is an idiot.
Porn is a incredibly bad substitute. You can’t hug or kiss porn
See, porn is bad for men. But ok for women. Because hypocrisy. Thing is, porn can not take half or more of your shit, or demand alimony, or take your kids. So some men do decide to minimize their risk of falling into these traps.
Given the high rate of sexually transmitted infections, even safe sex is risky unless it is with someone you can trust and that sort of thing takes time, even in a friends with benefits arrangement. People should be more selective about choosing sexual partners given some of these infections are permanent lifetime situations.
As for use of prostitutes. married and divorced men are with or have been with one. Some prostitutes marry short term. Some long term. But all women who divorce and wreck families, and do their utmost to financially wreck a man - are prostitutes of one form or another. But these are amateurs. Married women - well, marriage is/was considered the the exchange of certain things - his productivity and support, monogamy between both, in exchange for the guarantee that the children she bore would be his - i.e. the product of said agreed upon monogamy..
A pro. I have not been to but know men who have. They expect and get safe sex. Confirmed testing for disease is periodic for these guys too. The woman knows what the deal is. He does as well.
Technically, they do not pay for sex. They pay the woman a one time fee to have no emotional or legal entanglements, as opposed to the joke of paying her to just go away. But it's still seen as a transaction for sex.
And apparently women are strong and empowered for performing sex work, but those men are bad and evil for procuring it. See, more hypocrisy on female vs. male sexuality.
. And no man wants a fantasy relationship. I don’t know where this stuff comes from. Even the weird Japanese Otaku who have relationships with pillows only do it because they are so fed up with not having girlfriend that they don’t know what else to do. The porn, prostitutes, pillows, Real Dolls, Fleshlights, threats of Sex-Bots all come from men who are bitter, angry, lonely, depressed and have just given up.
So what about porn when women use it? How about dildos, vibrators, sybians, real male dolls, chicks humping their pillows, and strap ons? I suppose women are just bitter, angry, lonely, depressed, and have just given up.
See, those things for women are 'healthy and mature, but if a man enjoys his sexuality in a non-woman approved way then he's bad. Bad male sexuality! Bad bad! Male sexuality to these manginas is only good when approved of by a woman.
See how they subjugate their own desires and wallow in their own shame and then try to project it onto other men seeking validation for their weak willed choices? This bullshit is laughably pathetic.
They feel like they have tried everything and they just don’t know what else to do. When your desires are strong and you have no way to fulfill them you become frustrated and this is what happens to you. I have been there before so I know exactly what they are thinking.
I know plenty of women who, when their sexual tension needs a scratching and no one is around, they are not shy about taking matters into their own hands. Sometimes that means she goes solo. Sometimes that means she phones a friend.
This dumbass is obviously ashamed of his own sexuality and considers masturbation a bad thing. I'll bet when a woman masturbates it's ok though, because - again - hypocrisy.